
From Roommates to Soulmates
Reconnect with your spouse without awkward pressure or another thing on your to-do list — Unified turns 10 minutes a night into a rhythm that actually sticks.
What Couples Are Experiencing
94%
Felt more connected to their spouse without adding stress or pressure to their evenings.
91%
Said their nightly routine finally stuck after previous devotionals failed.
89%
Noticed their husband initiating spiritually without being asked or reminded.
Based on feedback from 1,200+ Unified couples over the past 90 days.
What Couples Are Saying
Why We Built This
We started Tselem because too many good couples drift apart — not from fighting, but from exhaustion. The slow fade of two people who love God and love each other but can't find their way back.
Marriage is supposed to be a refuge. A covenant. But the noise buries it.
So we built something simple. Rooted in Scripture. Backed by science. Designed to actually stick.
Because your marriage is worth building — one day at a time.
"Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain." — Psalm 127:1
Common Questions
How long does it take each day?
How long does it take each day?
About 10 minutes. Each day is two pages — a short scripture, a brief devotional, one discussion question, and a simple prayer prompt. Designed to be easier than scrolling your phone before bed.
What if my husband isn't interested in devotionals?
What if my husband isn't interested in devotionals?
That's exactly who this was built for. The structure is simple, clear, and doesn't require him to "share his feelings" or lead a deep theological discussion. He just opens it and follows along. Most wives tell us he's the one reminding them by Day 30.
We've tried devotionals before and always quit. Why is this different?
We've tried devotionals before and always quit. Why is this different?
Most devotionals are 30 or 40 days — which is right in the middle of what scientists call "the Valley of Death." Your brain is tired but the habit hasn't locked in yet. Unified is 66 days because that's how long it actually takes for a behavior to become automatic. You're not broken. You just stopped too early.
Why 66 days specifically?
Why 66 days specifically?
Research from the European Journal of Social Psychology found that 66 days is the average time for a habit to move from effort to autopilot. Day 40 is when most people quit. Day 66 is when connection becomes automatic.
What's actually inside the devotional?
What's actually inside the devotional?
Each day includes: a scripture verse, a short devotional reading (~150 words), one discussion question, a shared response line you fill in together, and a prayer prompt. No prep. No homework. Just open and go.
What comes in the Covenant Bundle?
What comes in the Covenant Bundle?
Two copies of Unified (one for each of you to write in), plus a 66-Day Wall Tracker so you can see your progress and stay accountable together.